Inspired by Tom Torero and Thomas Crown, I am adding a Find A Wing page on my own site as well. Follow the link:
Click here
How it works
Add a comment with:
- Your email, or a way for people to contact you*
- Your city, location
- Your Experience level
- Your type of Game
Then:
- Any other info at your disclosure
- Let others reach out to you
[*Tip: make an anonymous email for this purpose]
Useful Wing Rules:
- Meet for a quick coffee to get to know each other before you hit it off.
- If you have the same type for girls, take turns.
- Goal number one is vibe protection for both of you.
- If you catch IOIs for your wing, let him know. Now it is his set, even if out of turn.
- Avoid value tapping
Notes on Value Tapping:
Value Tapping is status games between Wings. This is to be avoided at nearly all costs. The only acceptable scenario is when one wing is much more experienced than the other (and hence the person getting value tapped receives mini coaching).
This is adversarial due to how serotonin works. If one person claims the leading spot, his serotonin rises -> his vibe rises. The other person experiences a serotonin crash -> his vibe crushes.
In general aim to make the relationship equal, and avoid nuances like:
- Walking half a step ahead.
- Talking more than the other.
- Humble bragging